You Go, Girl

Midlife women,
monthly memories,
lifelong friendships.

CONNECT

EXPLORE

Meet amazing
women who get it.

Fun adventures
and new experiences.

Build confidence
and lasting friendships.

GROW

Make New Friends, Explore New Adventures, and Have Fun!

Are you ready to step out, try something new, and connect with amazing women? You Go, Girl is the perfect place to meet like-minded women, build meaningful friendships, and share unforgettable experiences. Each month, we plan a variety of exciting activities designed to energize, educate, and entertain and we’d love for you to join us!

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What is You Go GIrl?

YGG is more than just a social group, it’s a vibrant community where women come together to:

  • Meet new friends in a fun and relaxed environment.

  • Explore unique, adventurous, charitable and educational activities.

  • Create lasting memories with a supportive and uplifting group.

Our events are designed with variety in mind, so there’s always something new to look forward to. From active outings to laid-back gatherings, there’s an adventure waiting for everyone!

What our You Go, GIrl members are saying

I love the You Go Girl Adventures! I've been part of the crew since day 1 and have loved every minute of it. Joan has found a unique and fun way to bring like minded women together to build friendships and memories that will last a lifetime. The women are fun, welcoming, supportive, and always up for an adventure. It is so great being able to meet new people each month and experience the beauty of the PNW.

-Cathryn P.

You Go, Girl started by Joan Dandeneau is an amazing group of ladies that is growing in numbers and quickly lifetime friendships are being made.  Joan has and continues to promote community, always emphasizing everyone is welcome.  The group photos Joan takes each activity says it all.  It’s the absolute best, connecting with incredible ladies, trying new things and creating sister like bonds. So much fun!

-Marie G.

I am grateful to have joined in the monthly activity group You Go Girl! which is organized by Joan. I have met new acquaintances and tried new and fun activities now that I am (mostly) retired from teaching. It is a warm and inclusive group of women and I love that the focus is on positivity and uplifting each other! Thanks for all that you do for the community Joan! 💞

-Jennie W.

You GO, Girl is for you if…

  • You’re craving community, your kids, career, or a pandemic pause reshuffled your social circle, and you’re ready to rebuild it with women who “get” midlife.

  • You love trying new things (hikes, plants, volunteering) but you don’t have time or desire to do all the planning, you want to just show up and have fun.

  • You want judgment-free friendship where real talk beats small talk, laughter is medicine, and everyone is welcomed with open arms.

  • You need flexible fun, a once-a-month outing that fits your busy calendar with zero guilt if life gets in the way.

  • You believe self-care isn’t solo-care and that investing in friendships is as important as fitness, nutrition, or any other wellness habit.

  • You’re a little nervous… but curious and an easy ice-breaker, warm community, and instant inbox reminders sound like just the nudge you need.

What you can expect

Monthly Outings: Held on Fridays, mid-morning to early afternoon, each event is tailored to ensure it’s engaging, enjoyable, and inclusive.

First Event Free: Dip your toes in and see if it’s the right fit for you - no strings attached!

Affordable Membership Fee: Continue your journey with us for just $120 per year.

some of our past events Include:

  • A relaxing picnic with wine and games.

  • Paddleboarding on Lake Sammamish and South Lake Union

  • Hikes on the Eastside

  • Snowshoeing

  • Plant-making workshop

  • Glass Art

  • Fashion Workshop

  • Shopping Excursion of local small businesses

  • Farm visit

interested in learning more about Us?

This quick application isn’t meant to gate-keep, it simply helps us confirm that the days, vibe, and spirit of adventure we offer line up with what you want.

Request to join

I’m a fitness and nutrition coach who believes health isn’t just about reps and recipes - it’s also about relationships.

Community has always been my north star, but the pandemic showed me just how fragile our friend circles can feel. When the world reopened, I saw too many incredible women wondering, “Where did my people go?” - so I planned a solution and called it You Go, Girl.

I’m a planner by nature, and a born connector who gets genuine joy from gathering women and watching friendships spark. Small talk isn’t my style; I dive straight into the good stuff - life, love, dreams, struggles - because that’s where real bonds form.

Each month I curate an easy-to-say-yes-to outing (think snowshoe adventures, fashion styling classes, or a picnic at a winery) so you can simply show up, be yourself, and leave with new memories - and new friends - to carry forward.

I know firsthand that community fuels confidence, so If you’re craving fun, real conversation, and the kind of sisterhood that turns “once a month” into lifelong connection, grab your spot on our next adventure.

You go, girl - let’s gather!

Hi, I’m Joan

Frequently Asked Questions

  • A monthly meet-up club for women 40-ish and beyond who want fun, low-stress outings that you don’t have to plan - just show up, enjoy and maybe even make a new friend.

  • Any woman in midlife (think 40-70) who’s craving new connections and looking for some fun and interesting activities to get on the calendar. Assuming our schedule and vibe align, and we have room (membership is limited to maintain intimacy among members), you are welcome to join us.

  • Once a month, usually on a Friday morning into early afternoon. Most gatherings run 2–3 hours, depending on the activity.

  • Everything from outdoor hikes and paddle-boarding to fashion workshops, volunteer outings, and lunch/brunch. We keep the mix fresh - some active, some creative, some charitable, and some just-for-fun.

  • Absolutely. Almost everyone feels a little jittery when they try something new, but You Go, Girl is a judgment-free, wide-open-arms kind of crew. I build in easy ice-breakers so no one’s left on the edges, and the group is genuinely welcoming - most first-timers arrive solo and leave swapping phone numbers.

  • Nope. Come when it works. Consistency helps friendships grow, but real life happens; there’s zero guilt for missing a month or several.

  • There’s a single $120 annual membership fee that unlocks everything - access to the private community hub, priority sign-ups, and my behind-the-scenes coordination (nametags, website, planning hours, the whole shebang). Many gatherings are included (think hikes, snowshoe treks, potluck picnics, volunteer mornings). When an outing carries a third-party cost - like a pottery class, museum ticket, or guided tour - you’ll just pay that additional fee at registration. We keep those prices transparent and as affordable as possible. That way you only pay for the extras you choose, while the membership keeps the club running smoothly year-round.

  • Usually - just check the event listing first.

    • Open-capacity outings (hikes, picnics, etc) welcome guests. Their first visit is free so they can test-drive the vibe; after that, it’s $30 per event unless they decide to become full members.

    • Limited-capacity events (studio classes, guided tours, workshops) are reserved for members first. If extra spots remain, you’ll see a “bring-a-guest” option at registration.

  • No. If you sign up after June 1, you will pay a discounted pro-rated fee. Inquire here for details.

    Heads-up: rates sometimes increase at the beginning of a new year. If you become (or renew as) a member by December 31, you’ll lock in the current price for the next year.

  • As soon as you become a member, you’re automatically added to our email list and our community Slack chat- that’s where new event announcements and sign-up links land first. When you register for a specific outing, you’ll get an instant email confirmation. Then, the week of the event, I open a short-term Facebook Messenger chat with all attendees for any weather tweaks, car-pool notes, or day-of hype (and to swap photos afterward). No screenshot-surfing required - you’ll always know exactly where to be and what to bring.

    • Private Slack community: the year-round hub for conversation, encouragement, and spontaneous “anyone free for coffee?” posts.

    • Members-only Website Area: includes our event calendar plus a searchable member directory so you can reach out and make plans with new friends.

    • Google Photo Album: a living scrapbook of every hike, brunch, and belly laugh - perfect for reliving memories or sharing with friends who are curious about joining.

Got a question that’s not here? Shoot me a quick email.

One friendly email each week, no spam, just inspiration and practical tips to keep your midlife glow going strong. Ready? Let’s do this!